Eating out, Cunnilingus, giving head, clit-licking. What is the right way to eat pussy ?
Keep reading, I’m going to tell you everything you need to know and make her addicted.
Some guys don't like to eat pussy, either they’ve never done it, or are just “pussy”. So when a woman finds a man who likes to go down on her, she’s found a real treasure she won’t want to let go of. research has proven oral sex is the most reliable when helping your person with a vulva orgasm. With a majority of people who require clitoral stimulation more so than penetration alone. So if you want to make her cum, EAT THE PUSSY!
Here’s some steps how:
First: the little man in the boat (clit), he's up top. You need to know to this.
Don't rush, make her comfortable, Tell her she is beautiful and mean it! Some women are shy about their bodies and might worry how much you view her body. Tell her which parts you love before she lets your mouth between her legs, Let her trust you. Women need to be kissed, teased, sucked and licked elsewhere on their body before you go down on them, and you need to take your time doing it.
Turn her head and start kissing her behind her ear. Lick it lightly, using the tip of your tongue, then suck on that area a little, bite it softly if she likes this. Start moving to her neck, licking, sucking, kissing and lightly biting the area as you're walking her back towards the bed.
As you begin to do this, smoothly get your hands under her shirt and start lifting it up, but mask that you're doing this by grabbing her on the hips, waist and stomach; spreading your hands wide and firmly grabbing as much as possible. Doing this should make you feel strong and assertive to her, like you want her. Continue taking her shirt off, but not the bra.
Make eye contact. Some women might not like this, others might. Depends on the girl, it may feel awkward for a small few but can make the act more intimate for you and your partner.
Lay her down on the bed and get on top of her; almost like you'd be riding her. Lean down and start kissing her on the lips again. Now, AS SLOWLY AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN, make your way down to neck, and slowly to her chest (NOT her boobs).
Tease her. Women love to be teased more so than men. The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, and dance on it with the tip of your tongue. Come close to her pussy, and then come away. Make her anticipate it.
Be vocal. Just like us men, women want enthusiasm. Letting her know you're genuinely enjoying it, putting your heart and all into it, can be such a huge turn-on. “I'm a pussy devouring man and I need that pussy melting in my mouth right now”. Throw some dirty talk in.
Dirty talk. Try throwing in some dirty talk. A little or a lot, of dirty talk can make an intimate session more enjoyable for the both of you. Ask your partner, “do you like how it feels, do you like my mouth”. Doing this also opens up any needed feedback.
The wetter the better. A great ingredient for the best Cunnilingus, is getting really sloppy with it. I mean, spit everywhere. drooling, dripping down your face messy, there’s so much wet spit, “it feels so good, i’m about to cum”, sloppy. No spit equals dry mouth and a lot of friction. Which is truthfully, quite painful and less pleasurable for the receiver.
Now Finger-fuck her with TWO fingers! to intensify your woman’s pleasure. simultaneously, while you finger-fuck her while she’s enjoying your clit-licking. Take two fingers, Make sure they’re wet. Slide them inside, slowly at first, then a little faster (G-Spot massage). Fuck her with them rhythmically. Speed up only when she does. Listen to her breathing. you’re giving her way more breathtaking arousal than you would with your cock alone. Remember steps 4. and 7. Make eye contact, Be vocal. She’ll let you know what to do.
Have a finish plan and don’t let go of her clit when she starts to orgasm. Use a vibrator if this helps and don’t feel intimated by it guys, if you can help her cum better than do this. toys also brings a lot of fun to the bedroom for the both of you, so I do advise on it. Now back to the clit. When she starts to have an orgasm, don’t let go of that clit. So many women are afraid of taking too long, hang in there. Move your tongue in and out of her. keep your fingers inside and move them a little too. Gently, things are extremely sensitive right now, let her cum. On your fingers, on your tongue. Again, be vocal and make eye contact.
Move up to her, come close to her, kiss her and Last but not least after she finishes, ask her if she’d like to cum again.
Idk the slobbering is a turn off for me. Definitely ask the person what things they like and don’t like. And listen, also be open to suggestions without being defensive or getting your feelings hurt. And if she’s afraid to ask you to change it up or do something differently/better, ask directly “hey, how was that for you?” “How can I make you feel better?” “Do you like when I did __?” “What did you not enjoy?” Etc. there’s no one way to please a person so keep that in mind. And for the love of god don’t use porn as a guide since it is acting.
-sincerely a person with a vagina
A pretty decent guide for anyone who hasn’t done it before. However, I feel like you missed the most important step 1 - ask what she likes!
For me, slobber is an absolute turn off, as is any sort of touching my chest or fingering (unless I’m really in the mood for it). I would be asking to stop before we even make it to the end of these steps. Don’t get me wrong, this an excellent guide, but men, PLEASE tailor it your woman and her preferences. We don’t all like all of this.